Survivor of Domestic Violence

Bertha was involved with an abuser 14 years ago who tried to tear down her spirit because he was unhappy with himself. A daughter came out of the relationship so Bertha has learned to forgive but she will never forget. She is a survivor of domestic violence and she wants to encourage others to notice the signs of abuse, encourage families and friends to stay supportive, and encourage victims that there is life after abuse.

"My reason for public speaking is to encourage everyone to get involved, look out for one another. 'Love thy neighbor as we love ourselves.' Domestic violence affects us all."

Vanessa Taylor first became a victim of domestic abuse at the age of 12. At the age of 16 she met a man who employed a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde technique to keep her guessing, make her feel off balance, and create frustration. At the age of 25, she told him to leave but he believed he owned her. He returned in the middle of the night and severely beat her with a baseball bat. Vanessa survived the attack but was told she may never walk again. Vanessa refused to give up and persevered through her physical therapy. Vanessa did walk again and now she speaks publicly about domestic violence, both physical and mental abuse.

"This is who I am. This is what I do. I'm a survivor of Domestic Violence. I love sharing my story. I hope it will bring a way of healing and to educate the different signs to be aware of in Domestic Violence."